My wife and I have traveled to the wedding of a niece today. We are in attendance, not participants, but if I had to give a bride and groom (who claim Christ) pointers for the start of this marriage, what would I say?
Our society has lost the notion of marriage. We must not. Marriage is not a mere human tradition designed for our fun. It is a key institution conferred by God (Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4-6) as a permanent relationship (Matt 19:6) reflecting the relationship of Christ with the Church (Eph 5:31-32). It is not trivial. The author of Hebrews says, "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Heb 13:4). Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord (Eph 5:22-24). Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church -- give self up (Eph 5:25-27). In both cases -- wife and husband -- remember that your faith, your salvation, and your provision are not in your spouse, but in the Lord. A marriage of a man and a woman dedicated to the proposition that Christ is the center and provider for life can only result in what I call a "200% marriage." You won't each be giving 50% to this marriage. You can each give 100% because you're not counting on your spouse to provide for you all that Christ will provide (Rom 8:31-39).
Marriage is a grand relationship designed and powered by God. Done as God requires, it will be the most fulfilling relationship even in the midst of the most difficult times providing the highest joys in life. Beyond that, a marriage conducted as God commands will be a powerful testimony to God's provision and goodness and love and grace and mercy and more. It isn't a trivial relationship covered in warm feelings. It is so very much more. It is a lifelong commitment to the glory of God.
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