"This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:12-13)In today’s world with a thorough misunderstanding of the biblical concept of love and, perhaps, our problem of cursory reading, it’s easy to miss what He said. “Yeah, yeah … love each other. Got it.” Yes, but not quite.
Jesus gave them a new commandment. “Love one another.” In that discourse alone, He said it three times. He made it clear that He wasn’t talking about the normal “love one another” where the standard is “as you love yourself.” He qualified it with “just as I have loved you” (John 15:12). This love was something more than our normal version. In fact, Jesus called it the most telling indication that they were His disciples (John 13:35). It is not just “be nice to each other.” It’s more.
What more? Jesus said, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another” (John 13:34). “As I have loved you.” He answers that same question a little more clearly in that passage in John 15. “Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.” What, then, is He saying? “I am commanding you to love one another by dying to self for each other.” (See 1 John 3:16-17.) Because He was on the cusp of laying down His life for them.
Christians through most of church history have taken this command seriously. The author of Hebrews describes how those Christians “showed sympathy to the prisoners and accepted joyfully the seizure of your property, knowing that you have for yourselves a better possession and a lasting one” (Heb 10:34). They lost their own property while they went to aid prisoners. In the early church, they sold their belongings to take care of each other (Acts 4:32-35). During times of persecution they willingly died not only for Christ, but also for each other. They ministered to fellow believers during times of major epidemics without regard for their own lives. In Communist countries, they accepted punishments for weaker prisoners. Their detractors would comment, “They know how to love each other.” Church history is rich in this tradition of loving in that way.
Jesus didn’t necessarily mean just dying, either. He meant dying to self (Php 2:5-8). He meant precisely the opposite of today’s “looking out for number one” mentality, the “what’s in it for me” idea. These believers, following Christ's example, put the interests of others ahead of their own (Php 2:3-4). That is radical in today’s world. It also seems less visible than it used to be among believers. It’s not about martyrdom, but about self-sacrifice.
Jesus said, “By this all men will know that you are My disciples.” By what? The kind of love that lays down its life for others. Like He did. How are we doing? Are we living examples of Christ’s self-sacrifice for the best interest of others? I have to say I’m not what I ought to be in that area. To my own shame.
