



And I'm left wondering, with the David, "What is man, that Thou dost take thought of him? And the son of man, that Thou dost care for him?" (Psa 8:4).
3 Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?" 4 And He answered and said, "Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." 7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give her a certificate of divorce and send her away?" 8 He said to them, "Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery" (Matt. 19:3-9).Now, carefully, without inserting your emotional response and keeping in mind textual and cultural context, look at that passage. First, notice the question of the day: "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?" (v 3). That was the question Jesus answered first. His answer: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" (v 6). He did it without equivocation. He didn't offer excuses or exceptions. He stated it clearly. The so-called "exception clause" of verse 9 would never have been if the Pharisees who were testing Him had accepted His answer. The answer: No!
"Do you suppose that these Galileans were greater sinners than all other Galileans because they suffered this fate? I tell you, no, but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish. Or do you suppose that those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them were worse culprits than all the men who live in Jerusalem? I tell you, no, but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish" (Luke 13:2-5).Jesus didn't say one way or another whether or not these events were the judgment of God. He simply warned them to look to their own sins. But the question was suspended. Then, in John 9, Jesus's disciples asked Him about a man who was blind from birth. "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?" (John 9:2). The assumption was that when bad things happen, it is the judgment of God for something. Jesus denied this assumption:
"It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him" (John 9:3).In this case Jesus specifically denies that this event (a man born blind) was the judgment of God. So I'm not your standard "The sky is falling; it's the judgment of God" type of person.
"By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35).I have a secret fantasy. Fantasies, by their nature, are not probabilities. They are unlikely. I recognize that. But I still harbor this one as if it were actually possible.
"Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light" (Matt. 11:29-30)."Take my yoke upon you." That's an invitation? No, that sounds more like a command with an ultimatum. And, indeed, we are to preach the gospel to all creation, but that good news doesn't even begin to require an invitation. The "good news" is "You're a sinner (good news?), and your only hope is to place your trust in Christ who died for your sins." Not much of an invite there. One of the most tortured invitational pieces is that Revelation 3 verse. Yanked wholly out of context, it certainly does seem quite inviting. But you have to yank it out of context for that. What is the context? This is in the midst of a letter from Jesus to one of the seven churches, not to the world. Jesus isn't writing to the world, "I'm standing outside your door knocking." He's writing to a church. When you have the Lord of the Church writing that He's standing outside, it's not much of an invitation. This becomes ominous. Instead of a generous offer to a lost world, this becomes more of a last-ditch opportunity to a dying church to repent or die.
And the bottom line for me is I really don't care what the Bible or Reformed Theology says about this or that or if its opinion on this or that is presumptuous enough to tell me how to live my life. I can make my own decisions. I am impetuously autonomous and an incorrigible smart-ass.I know. Mind-boggling, isn't it? "I consider myself a Christian ... but I don't care what Christ thinks." To be fair, I'm quite certain that his perspective is more accurately stated, "I cannot imagine Jesus telling me this." He claims that it's hyperbole. Okay. Still, the whole thing is disturbing when you're talking about a pastor. But enough people have raised that concern enough times, so I'm not going there. And Pastor Bob, the pastor with whom Pastor Shuck is having the dialog, seems to be doing a fine job of defending the truth, so I'm not going there, either. It's not even Pastor Shuck that I'm thinking about here. It's the idea.
This means that...
* if even 500 verses of the Bible and
* if Jesus himself proclaimed on the Mount of Transfiguration and
* if Jesus appeared to me on my back deck in the glory of his resuscitated corpse and
stated to me as clearly as the four p.m. sun is hot, that homoerotic love is a sin and that if I support gays and lesbians in their relationships I would join them in the fires of hell, I would look him in his piercing eyes and say (if I had the courage of my convictions):
"Fine then. Send me to your hell. You are wrong, Jesus."
Why? Because I know Tony and Mike. Because I know dozens of other couples and individuals and I know who they are and that what they do is as good and sacred as what anyone else does.
And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose (Rom. 8:28).Most Christians know that verse. Most Christians rejoice in that verse. Of course, most of us think at some time or another, "It's not working." And that's when we come into those "exception" concepts. When our experience doesn't feel like God is working all things together for good, we start to come up with reasons for it.
5 Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; 6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things (Phil. 4:5-8).It's a wonderful little passage full of excellent advice. "Let your reasonableness be known to everyone." Think about that when you blog. "Do not be anxious about anything." Excellent advice. Take it to the Lord in prayer. I mean, why wouldn't we? Who doesn't want to experience "the peace of God which surpasses all understanding"? Bring it on!