Here are some examples. Consider relationships.
- “All marriages are boring.”
- “All men are emotionally unavailable.”
- “All women are too emotional.”
- “Every married couple eventually falls out of love.”
- “All teenagers rebel against their parents.”
- “Boomers hate change.”
- “Millennials are entitled.”
- “Gen Z can't communicate face-to-face.”
- “Young people don't want to work.”
- “Old people don't understand technology.”
- “All Christians are hypocrites.”
- “All atheists hate God.”
- “Religious people are anti-science.”
- “Churches only care about money.”
- “All Evangelicals only believe what they do because of they're upbringing.”
- “Everyone who goes to church is a good person.”
- “Rich people are greedy.”
- “Poor people are lazy.”
- “All politicians are corrupt.”
- “Business owners only care about profit.”
- “Anyone can succeed if they work hard enough.”
“Oh, you know, Christians are known for the Crusades. They kill in Jesus’s name.”
I thought that was strange reasoning. So, I offered a parallel to see what he said.
“You’re married, right? She loves you? Good. So, one day I show up to work, pull out a gun, point it at you, and say, ‘I’m going to kill you.’ You say, ‘Whoa! What for??’ I say, ‘Your wife told me to.’ Now, your wife loves you and you know she’d never say that, so you call me on it. Why can you see that, based on what you know about your wife, she’d never tell someone to kill you, but if someone says, ‘I’m killing in Jesus’s name,’ you can’t see that, based on what we know about Jesus, He’d never say that?”
You see, he lumped me together with the Crusaders who called themselves “Christians” and perpetrated killing and war in the name of Christ when Christ never would have made such a command. To this coworker, all Christians are homicidal—guilty by association.
It’s a sinister lie in general. Not every American is an “ugly American.” Not every Calvinist is “restless and Reformed.” And so on.
There are reasons for groups and collections like this. They aren’t, by definition, evil. They’re even biblical (think “Jews” and “Gentiles,” for instance). I’m not suggesting they’re bad on their own. But we should always remember that people are individuals, designed by God to be individual and distinct. No two alike. We can categorize some things about people, but when it becomes a judgment, we should be very careful not to assign everyone in the group the same judgment. Individuals are made in the image of God and ought to be regarded with respect, not haphazardly judged guilty by association.