"Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it. (Matt 7:13-14)Just in terms of numbers, a statistical analysis, the text is frightening. We live in a nation that considered itself "Christian." The 2020 Census of American Religion holds that 70% of Americans are Christian. While some of us are concerned because that's down from the 75-80% of just a few years ago, I would argue that the numbers are wrong simply based on Jesus's statement. "The way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it." It would only make sense, assuming Jesus was right, that this 70% number is inflated and a significant number of the people who identify as "Christian" simply are not.
Which brings me to the other, nearby text that is equally frightening to me.
Not everyone who says to Me, "Lord, Lord," will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to Me, "Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and cast out demons in Your name, and do many mighty works in your name?" And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you workers of lawlessness. (Matt 7:21-23)As if in answer to that 2020 survey, Jesus says that not all who identify as Christians actually are. Note from Jesus's statement, however, that they don't seem to know it. They refer to Him as "Lord." They believed they were doing His work. They're quite confident they're "in." They're not. Jesus lists two tells, as it were. First, are they doing the will of God? Second -- and this one we often get turned around -- does Jesus know them? Not "Do they know Jesus?" The word "know" there refers to a relationship (as opposed to simple knowledge -- data). Jesus is not saying, "I have no knowledge or your existence." He is saying, "We have never had a relationship." "Many," Jesus said, would fall into that category. And that's frightening. That's scary for us and for others we care about.
I have not been put on this earth to determine your eternal state. It's not my job or even my capacity to determine whether or not Jesus has a relationship with you, where "you" includes my readers as well as all the people I care about. My intent here is not to point fingers. My aim here is to get each of us to ask ourselves and God, "Does Jesus have a relationship with Me? Am I doing the will of God? Or am I deceiving myself?" Because "The way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it," and many will come to Jesus in the end, too late, only to discover they never had that relationship. You don't want to be in that number.